Guide

Your first crypto payment.

Never touched crypto? Good — this was written for you. One-time setup is about ten minutes; every payment after that takes about one. You will not need to understand blockchains, read a whitepaper, or talk to anyone on the internet. You need to do exactly three things, and this page walks through each one.

WHY CRYPTO, HONESTLY

Because your card statement stays boring.

Paying with crypto means virtual.sex never learns your name, and nothing related to us ever appears on a bank or card statement. The exchange where you buy the coins verifies you once — that's a normal, regulated business, and that relationship is between you and them. What we receive on our side is a payment, not a person.

STEP 01 — ONE-TIME SETUP

Get a Coinbase account.

We recommend Coinbase specifically, not just "any exchange" — the payment method below is free precisely because of a network Coinbase itself operates, and that advantage is theirs alone. Signing up feels like opening any finance app: email, ID check, add a payment method. It's the longest part of this whole process, and you only ever do it once.

STEP 02

Buy a little USDC.

In the Coinbase app, buy USDC. Unlike most crypto, one USDC is always worth exactly one US dollar — it doesn't rise or fall, so the amount you buy is the amount that arrives, with nothing lost to a price moving while you wait.

Buy slightly more than you plan to spend — if you want $10 of credit, buy $11 of USDC so Coinbase's small purchase fee doesn't leave you short. Whatever is left over stays in your account for next time.

STEP 03 — EVERY TIME, ~1 MINUTE

Send it to your payment address.

In your virtual.sex dashboard, enter an amount and press Add funds. The payment page opens in a new tab: choose USDC, and it shows you an address (a long string of letters and numbers) with a QR code and an exact amount.

Back in Coinbase, tap Send (sometimes called Withdraw), paste that address — or scan the QR code with your phone — enter the exact amount shown, and confirm.

One screen needs your full attention: Coinbase will ask which network to send USDC on. It shows a list — Ethereum, Base, Solana, and others. Choose Base. It's Coinbase's own network, which is exactly why this is free: no withdrawal fee, no network fee worth mentioning. Picking a different one from that list is the only way this payment can go wrong, so take the extra second to check before confirming.

DONE

Your balance updates itself.

Base confirms payments in seconds, and your balance updates automatically. No receipt to upload, nothing to click. You can close the payment tab and go back to what you actually came here to do.

QUICK ANSWERS

Why USDC instead of Bitcoin or Ethereum?

Because it doesn't fluctuate. Bitcoin and Ethereum can move a few percent in an afternoon — fine for an investment, unhelpful for a $10 payment. USDC is always $1, issued by Circle and backed 1-for-1 by real dollar reserves, so there's nothing to watch or worry about.

What's "Base," and why does it matter?

It's Coinbase's own network — the reason sending USDC on it costs nothing. Every other network in that list (Ethereum especially) charges a real fee and isn't free on Coinbase's side either. Base is the one built for exactly this.

How long does it take?

First time ever: about ten minutes, nearly all of it the Coinbase signup. Every payment after that: about one minute of your time, then seconds for the network to confirm.

What does it cost on top?

Coinbase takes a small fee when you buy USDC — same as buying anything else. Sending it on Base costs nothing further, and there is no fee on our side.

Do I need a wallet app?

No. Coinbase holds your USDC and sends payments directly. Dedicated wallets exist for people who want more control — nothing here requires one.

I sent it — nothing happened yet.

Give it a minute or two. If your balance hasn't moved after that, double-check in Coinbase which network you actually sent on — sending on the wrong one is the only thing that causes this.

I already know crypto. Anything for me?

Then you don't need this page: the payment screen lists every coin we accept, including options chosen for people who care about privacy as much as we do. Pick your favorite, send, done.

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